How do I stop feminists from attacking my wife just because she is considered traditionally beautiful and dumb
I support genuine women’s liberation, but not seperatist feminism, which hurts women and is sexist. Those who do not unite with men, echo the same hatefilled sexism of the sociobiologists who say that there is something eternal in the male-female conflict.
The women I sided with are more radical than the feminists in my book, because they go to the root. But the feministas have viciously attacked them as being stooges for men like me personally.
In one talk I mentioned that, Xena and the Amazons could be seen as a positive role-model, and that I champion physical muscular fittness in women.
Thats when the slanders and attacks on my wife began. Since she doesn’t have a bodybuilder type body, but is more traditionally beautiful. So they are saying despite all my rhetoric I’m still a man. In public they asked me wife incrediby humilating personal and sexual questions about her relationship. She doesn’t know much about politics, so they made her look like a fool. Many of her answers were those of a traditional wife, so now I’m being blamed for her personality.
And in their newsletter they published incredibly crude and graphic descriptions of our supposed patriarchical intimacy. They compared us to apes, saying that despite claiming to be modern, I was just the alpha male of the tribe and taking the prettiest girl as my mate.
My wife feels terrible, and is very depressed and humiliated, and she blames herself thinking that shes caused me harm. The more she tries to explain that she loves me, and wants to be a good wife, the more patriarchical she makes our relationship look.
What should I do to diffuse the situation?
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Stop taking your Stepford wife to feminist gatherings. If you love her it doesn’t matter what other people think.
you should say who gives a crap what you think we’re all going to die one day so get over it
How about keep her hidden? If she’s that dumb, she surely isn’t contributing to the discussion. . . is she there purely as eye candy?
call a harrassment lawsuit
“But the feministas have viciously attacked them as being stooges for men like me personally. ”
My goodness, where do you live exactly? In Neverland ?
they are the dumb ones fighting for a cause that has already been resolved. i’m pretty sure the image of the typical “housewife” is long gone. my guess is they are a bunch of angry lesbians who are only mad at themselves for being such bitter people their entire lives and realized they had no friends so they decided to organize a group of like minded people to attack the people they didn’t like in high school. just kill them with kindness and they won’t know how to react to you
You just called her traditionally dumb. Wow.
I think you are trolling. But against my better judgment I will try to help your wife.
I PRIDE myself on being a mother of six children. A dutiful wife, not a trophy wife. In America I am allowed to have a difference of opinion than my mother who was a femi-nazi. I was raised in an all female home & Mom owned her own construction company. So if this is a real situation for me it could be for you as well. So here is my answer.
Mrs. Pad may not earn a paycheck. Her value to your children & to you cannot be quantified in money, but if it was just think of how many people you would have to hire to replace all that she does in your house. If she chooses to look like a southern bell or a 50′s homemaker then her decision is HER’s whether it causes you grief or not. Whether my mom likes it or not.
One supposed feminist on here suggested that you not take your “Stepford wife to feminist rallies”. Well leaving her at home or telling her she is not allowed is also not an option because that is even more sexist.
All feminists are not man-hating lesbians. Most feminists feel like women who behave traditionally just don’t know any better. If a woman Chooses to be a traditional wife & mother. Then it is, for some reason, a slap in the face of the woman who fought so hard to get out from under that mold. These are the same women who confuse inteligence with 8!tchyness & competence with callousness. If your wife truly supports you she needs to educate herself to her opponents point of view. & she needs to validate her position in terms they can comprehend. She will have to bait her hook to suite the fish. “Well i just like it that way. ” means “I dont know any better. ” & “my husband is the authority in our home. ” means “But i’m just a widdle girl wif no stwengf. ”
If her position is as valid to her as mine is to me she WILL be able to validate her position after educating herself to the feminist point of view.
I will not tell you what I say in those instances when I am scoffed at.
Because if this doesn’t come from her. Then they are right about you controlling her education & responses. If she wants to validate her position she WILL & she’ll leave the dingbat act at home. If you want her to speak up for your marriage structure but you don’t want her to read about feminism for fear that she will change then you need to re-evaluate the reality of the situation.
The only thing I can think of to diffuse the situation is to give your wife the materials she needs to educate herself about the opposition’s point of view. She needs to acknowledge that they have a right to insist on amazonian standards in their day to day life & she has the right to live as your servant & helpmate if that’s what makes her happy.
I would have no problem going toe to toe with The butchest man hater you can find. Because I will support what I believe in. It has nothing to do with being up on politics or being well spoken. The truth is the truth. It doesn’t matter how loudly or quietly it is spoken.
TROLL. . . . . you are the dumb a**
stop wasting our time with made up stories.