I’m a 37 yr old mother and my son is 16. My son is into working out now and he saw me in a tank top today and said I bet I can beat you in armwrestling. So we armwrestled and I could have beat him within 5 seconds but I was nice and pretended to struggle but finally beat him. After I won he ran off upset. A few minutes later I went to his room and open his door and I caught him looking at female bodybuilders and masterbating to them.(yes I should have knocked first) When I opened the door he started crying and asked why he couldnt even beat a girl armwrestling. What should I tell him? Also was he masterbating because I beat him it armwrestling
Any help would be accepted. Thank you.
Your last question is a definite NO. He wants to beat a female at armwrestling. He is turned on by bodybuilders (like a few of my ex-bf’s). I do not know if you were taking him to see female wrestling matches or he sees them on cable, but that’s his scene. . . not a big deal. Good news is he doesn’t like out of shape girls, and at 16 I hope he has a gym membership available to him. Also put him on the wrestling team to burn more energy. I think you are overreacting. 16 is a tough age. He needs to be around physically fit peers is all. . .