ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. he seems to have an obsession with muscels and arnold schwarzenegga. he has posters up of him and all of his dvds. my b/f is a complete gym addict and trains every night of the week and is even on steroids.. he seems to find naked bodybuilders bodys more attractive than a naked female?lol. He told me he used to go 2 gay clubs because it was better than going to normal clubs and tells me about how all the blokes used to fancy him and ask for his number etc….He is always joking and talking about how he sucked his mates c**** and did him up the a** laughing and joking, i know he is joking but is there an element of truth in his jokes, that maybe that he is gay or bi??
He likes to talk about anal sex and keeps asking me to let him do it. i dont mind and i know anal sex alone doen’t mean he is gay…
Tags: bisexual..or, boyfriend, maybe
What else do you need; actually catching him in the act?
Dont be so hard on the guy. My ex left me because she over-reacted when i asked her to put on a fake mustache, beard, and strap-on. She thought i was gay-Go figure-WOMEN.
Sounds like he is curious. Maybe he has even expermented. If you don’t mind this, ask him to be honest with you. Tell him you won’t judge him for what he may have done.
There is half truth in jokes that people say more than once related to personal matters. He could just be attracted and that’s it. The question is, are you cool with it if he his is or not?
sounds like a queer to me
How much more proof do you need?, the guy is a closet gaylord.
He’s joking with you to see if he will be accepted, No bum sex is good. Don’t let him do that unless you want to be incontinent when you are older.
I would say he is at least bisexual.
Sounds it to me, and I’ve ben around the block a few times myself. Think on the posative side, most guys don’t let you know ’til they saddle you down with a bunch of kids.
well, at least he is curious, may be bisexual. you should really think if you really love him, if you do, ask him to be honest with you and talk seriously about what you are worried about. because I’m sure you don’t just want to be wondering what he really thinks for the rest of your life. . . Good luck !
He is probably gay. Anyone guy who would rather look at naked men than women is without a doubt gay. Plus at some point if he is doing steroids, his penis will probably stop working anyway. Dump him and find a nice straight guy.
He is atleast bisexual, but ya, he does sound kinda gay.
oyea he is probably not
it sounds like he is curious
but some guys that are insecure about their bodies, intend to build up their bodies, or just have a general interest in body-building, often have an appreciation of muscley male bodies that comes more under admiration or envy rather than any actual sexual interest.
it may also represent one particular ideal of masculinity that he may like to identify with.
If he is having sex with you and has fun with you, he is not gay. He might be bicurious, or even bisexual, but not gay. Gay guys do not have girlfriends, they have boyfriends. Bisexuals have both! As to being attracted to the male athletic form, that’s nothing–most guys are attracted to or admire jocks. Look at the popularity of wrestling and other sports.
Yeah honey. He is bi or gay