Eight months ago, my wife left me for another man. I was raised by a mother and sister, and would describe myself as very sensitive. Depsite being a strong, tall man, I am not a tough guy (I admit, I can be a wimp). When we were together in College, we said we weren’t going to place traditional gender roles on our kids and she loved that I was so sweet, etc… When we graduated, she befriended this other man, cheated on me with him and ultimately came out and told me she was leaving. He is a bodybuilder and is more aggressive than me. According to her, part of why she left is that he is more dominant than I am. I suppose she changed when she was no longer in the liberal college atmosphere. I can’t see myself changing my personality this far in life. My question is, women often tell me I am very sweet, etc… But, in the age of the metrosexual, do women still want the tough guy? I very much want a family and I went to great lengths in other ways to please her, such as moving.