I am asking because I have just started out and I consider myself far from egotistical and arrogant.

I want to weight train because just having muscles in everyday life is good. It assists and prevents injury in so many activities. Also I would find general tasks much easier (Like DIY jobs around the house girls) a benefit to you ;P lol.

I have noticed however that girls have in their mind set that many built guys are arrogant, and how can you blame them. Most guys I see who are built brag about it ALL THE TIME.

I want to be built like, say, Tom Welling in Smallville, but be like him too, far from arrogant and up himself.

I, however, do not want girls to turn away from me just because ( I hope to ) I am big.

Can you give me an insight in how the female mind works these days when it comes to men who are built. I am not talking disgusting bodybuilders. I mean the general nice muscle lol.

Cheers x